Aug 31, 2011

Prior Training VS. Learning on the Job




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What do you think of this theory?

The difference between the way Modern Orthodox couples date and the way Yeshivish Couples date and marry is the difference between having prior training and learning on the job.

The Modern Orthodox couple will spend a significant time dating pinpointing issues in the relationship and working them out before committing to engagement and marriage.

A Haredi couple will have three-ten dates, see if there is chemistry and potential work with and will then get married. Once they are married, the hard work of getting to know each other begins.
That is why Shana Rishona has such a disastrous reputation.