Jan 23, 2012

When You Don't See It Coming

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A friend and I developed this theory that the worst types of break-ups are the ones you can't see coming.
Basically if you are going out with a guy and he is all into you, texts you all the time and tells you what an awesome time he is having with you, when he dumps you, you feel a million times more idiotic than you would if he would have acted pareve and would have just ended it by saying he didn't feel it.

The feeling of being tricked is so harmful. It makes the person feel gross and like an idiot who fell for yet another dating trap.

Do you think it is better for someone to act as if it's on 100% until it's off, or is it better to act as one feels?